Tinder and Bumble have become pay-to-win wastelands. Many users have migrated to "Single Groups" or "Date-Me Docs" hosted on Telegram. In these spaces, the goal is to without the surveillance of Meta.

Because Telegram allows for longer bios, animated profile pictures, and custom themes, users have turned profile customization into a status symbol.

A user slides into your DMs (Direct Messages) after you ask a question in a public channel. They aren't flirting; they are hustling . They will use a script designed to build rapport quickly, flash screenshots of massive gains, and try to get you to "verify your wallet" (a scam) or buy into a presale.

Stay sharp. Keep your DMs closed. And don't click the link. Have you been macked on Telegram? Share your story in the comments below (but maybe use a burner account).